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Post by SA Hunter on Nov 27, 2018 21:51:53 GMT 10
You’ve become convinced that it is wise to prepare for uncertainties in the future as best you can. You’ve been picking up extra canned goods each month and you are reducing debt wherever you can. You’ve started having some family discussions around the dinner table. Last night, there was an interesting debated about how the tensions in Iran could affect the price of oil or what the reduced crop of peanuts will mean for lunch boxes in schools across the country. These are really good ways to get your children thinking about the bigger picture and the inter-related nature of things in the world around them. The next step is to actually enlist their help. preppingtosurvive.com/2012/02/02/getting-children-involved-in-preparing/
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Post by Pion on Nov 29, 2018 21:22:30 GMT 10
Brilliantly put...its about the whole picture while your heads on a swivel not just cans in the cupboard and an extra slab of plastic water!
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Post by SA Hunter on Nov 29, 2018 22:26:47 GMT 10
My young fella is 15. He has been helping me prep from day 1, maybe day 2. I've been really open with him as to why, and we discuss possible teotwawki events, and also discuss world/local events in the news. He is helping me to build at my bol - to him it's a camping trip away, but to me it's a life lesson. He'll be setting snares, practicing archery, looking for edible plants etc. Each potential bol I have looked at, I have made him give me pros and cons for each site. This last place I will finally start, he gave this area a lot more pros than any other place we looked at too. And, he gets to cook his own food, set his own tent, collect his own firewood. And, he then also teaches his 2 younger nephews these skills as well.
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Post by jonasparker on Dec 2, 2018 7:55:52 GMT 10
It's great to get the kids involved, but you must stress to them that "preps" are NEVER discussed outside of the home or the immediate family!
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Post by Pion on Dec 2, 2018 13:18:17 GMT 10
Opsec is important...make the training 'our secret' and you have a bonding excercise too...
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Post by feralemma on Dec 2, 2018 15:20:20 GMT 10
For us having a full pantry is just a way of life. Making sure the bore is turned on and tanks are filled when they get down to half is standard procedure. Shooting, trapping etc is just a part of daily life to get rid of pests. Camping is a holiday. Killing & butchering is just another thing that needs to be done. Grain and hay is stored as it's only harvested once a year. Fire unit is filled and ready to go as soon as everything starts to dry out so we don't lose everything. None of these things are treated as being out of the ordinary or something to be all secret squirrel about, and the kids don't even think to mention it to anyone because it's normal. Lol and it's normal for most of their friends too.
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Post by grumble on Dec 2, 2018 17:30:12 GMT 10
I don't get my children involved in prepping per say I do teach them things relevant to their age and actively get them involved with fun activities
my personal mantra s let kids be kids
I have taught my eldest child who is only 5 to do the following things how to call 000 and tell the nice person mummy or daddy needs help and what's happened i.e daddy fell down or is bleeding the basics you get the picture he also knows where the 1st aid kit is , fire blanket fire extinguisher is located so if asked he can get it
he knows to never answer the front door to anyone and to simply tell mummy or daddy there is someone at the front door both my son and daughter have extremely loud whistles that they carry with them and the rule is if they ever go walking around outside and accidently wander off and get lost to sit in place and blow their whistles and we will find them my son also knows that when he is at the park or anywhere even at home if anything ever happens or someone tries to lure him and his sister away to look anything in their vehicle to blow the f*ck out of the whistle and daddy will be right there
we have given him basic instructions on fire alarm drills to basically grab his special wool blanket and get down low by the window in his room and stay there till told otherwise as he gets older this will change
as far as prepping goes I will just teach the kids public safety set them up in a martial arts class and give them the basic skills to do handy things and if they want to go deeper then that's fine if not no point being a drill master
I've also set up a shelf in the cupboard whee there are drinks and snacks they both can reach easily just incase something unfortunate happened to me or my wife and the children had to spend several hours or longer fending for themselves it would break my heart to think of them being hungry and thirsty just waiting for someone to come home
most importantly and this I think is one of the biggest things is we have set in stone the legal guardianship and made arrangements in our wills to protect our children's assets in the advent that both my wife and I were to pass away ( think accident or something ) while our children were still young and we have redundancies in place if the 1 options is not possible I rest a lot easier knowing that our children would be raised and taken care of in a manner that we agreed on and its not one of those things where they were orphaned and people only wanted them for their trust accounts
I think in all of the things I have done those decisions were the hardest to make I mean we all plan on raising our children right? so what happens if you cant who then and what if the people you think would do it don't want to?
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Post by Pion on Dec 2, 2018 23:04:09 GMT 10
Yes Grumble well done...to each their own...
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Post by jonasparker on Dec 3, 2018 5:40:06 GMT 10
Good points for young children there, Grumble. I was always more concerned about our teenagers telling their classmates about our guns and ammo, the cases of canned food in the pump room, the silver coins in the safe, our bug-out bags, and the mutual support planning that we had done with our neighbors.
Now that the BHC and I are retired and back in Texas, we don't have to be so concerned. Everyone within a 20 mile radius of us is pretty much on the same page.
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Post by grumble on Dec 4, 2018 15:50:51 GMT 10
I must clarfy my earlier post my intention is to give my children a solid base of survival skills to build off as they get older a more organic growth with them type thing so its never an issue for them
A good example is I never worked out my parents were preppers until I was in my 20's because all the camping gear was for camping the small selection of firearms was for pest control an hunting the large pantry full of supplies was because we lived in an area prone to cyclones and being cut off during the wet none of it was out of place I can remember the gun cupboard had a M1 carbine , an armalite AR10 , franchi spas 12 a Winchester pump action and a bolt action .22 with the ammo selection on the top shelf with the spare mags for the AR10 and M1 carbine
I was introduced to firearms as tool and taught to leave them be unless needed for a reason or target practice
so my thing is I will teach my children as they need to know and is relevant to their age but in a way that is innocuous
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Post by Tim Horton on Mar 26, 2019 10:17:56 GMT 10
so my thing is I will teach my children as they need to know and is relevant to their age but in a way that is innocuous >>>>> Yes.. With kids, the type, depth of the answer is all age dependent. Same question, different age = different answer...
@#$% Age dependent means you start with the simple things. For instance, I would boil hamburger, mince it in the food processor so the kids had to eat it with the spaghetti. Later I taught them to make spaghetti. March around the kitchen waving a spoon, make it fun, teach the lesson, the next day take them to the market and how to buy spaghetti for the next meal.
I got them to help me cut out cents off gas coupons, we would buy gas, then show them the money we saved and what they wanted to do with that money.
They do learn and remember lessons, however there comes a day when they are responsible for how to apply life lessons and strategies to there own lives.
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Post by frontsight on Mar 26, 2019 15:27:14 GMT 10
The youngest in my family preps, I am the youngest in the family.....
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Post by Peter on Mar 26, 2019 21:56:27 GMT 10
so my thing is I will teach my children as they need to know and is relevant to their age but in a way that is innocuous >>>>> Yes.. With kids, the type, depth of the answer is all age dependent. Same question, different age = different answer... @#$% Age dependent means you start with the simple things. For instance, I would boil hamburger, mince it in the food processor so the kids had to eat it with the spaghetti. Later I taught them to make spaghetti. March around the kitchen waving a spoon, make it fun, teach the lesson, the next day take them to the market and how to buy spaghetti for the next meal. I got them to help me cut out cents off gas coupons, we would buy gas, then show them the money we saved and what they wanted to do with that money. They do learn and remember lessons, however there comes a day when they are responsible for how to apply life lessons and strategies to there own lives. That's a valuable point. Teach kids how to survive in the here & now. Even if TS never HTF they'll be well prepared for life. And at the end of the day, that's our job as parents.
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Post by feralemma on Mar 27, 2019 9:11:32 GMT 10
I wish we had coupons here!
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Post by Pion on Mar 27, 2019 12:01:08 GMT 10
They not have the loyalty/gas card thing Em?
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